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The Sweet Roll- Parshat Bo

1/14/2016

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I remember a funny sketch from an old Electric Company episode. A man dressed in what looks like a navel uniform sits in a restaurant and orders from a waitress with puffy red hair and a classic blue waitress uniform:
 
“I’ll have a cup of coffee and a sweet roll,” says the man.
 
 “We are out of sweet rolls,” says the waitress.
 
“A glass of milk and a sweet roll.”
 
“We- are- out- of- sweet- rolls,” the waitress repeats a little bit more slowly.
 
“Ice tea and a sweet roll.”
 
“We are out of sweet rolls!” The redness of her hair starts migrating into her face, leaving her hair white.
 
“Orange juice and a sweet roll?”
 
She really leans in now- “WE ARE OUT OF SWEET ROLLS!!!”
 
“Okay, then, I’ll just have a sweet roll.”
 
“AAAAARRRRRGH!!!!” She screams and runs out the door.
 
How many times have you gotten some message over and over again in your life, but you didn’t listen? Or perhaps you couldn’t listen?
 
In this week’s reading, that’s what happens to Pharaoh. Moses and Aaron present plague after plague to Pharaoh in order to persuade him-

"Shalakh ami!
     "Let my people go!"

 
During each plague Pharaoh relents, but after each one subsides, he contracts into his old position- he just doesn’t get it. What does he think he’s accomplishing?
 
But that’s exactly what the ego does: it brings suffering upon itself over and over again, rather than learning the all-important lesson: Let go!
 
So why is it often so difficult to let go?
 
One common reason is the fear that if you were to let go, you’d be ignoring your real problems- that you’d become irresponsible and everything would fall apart.
 
Actually, the opposite is true.
 
When you lose your happiness and freedom because you’re struggling with your problems, you now have two problems- both the difficult situation and the inner tension and negativity generated by your struggling and worrying.
 
And with all that inner tension, how are you going to improve things?
 
But when you bring your awareness to your resistance and see it clearly for what it is, there’s a higher wisdom that can flow into your life. New possibilities can appear that were previously hidden.
 
That’s because your awareness is much bigger than “you” can see. Your ego/personality is “Pharaoh”- king of Mitzrayim- of narrowness, of limitedness, mindlessly repeating the same old patterns over and over again.
 
But your awareness is Divine- it’s Reality looking through your eyes- courageous, creative, present and free. 

So next time you find yourself struggling, resisting or reacting with negativity, see if you can "catch yourself in the act." Be curious about it- see the pattern that's emerging. If you're feeling too much negativity to see clearly, try prayer. Ask the Divine to help you, to free you from the pattern. Just this simple act creates a new inner space in which your awareness can rise above whatever inner noise you're experiencing. Then, be alert for whatever answer comes, whatever new possibility reveals itself.

The Divine Presence is always with you- It is your own presence, beneath your mind, beneath your personality.
 
There's a story about a hasid named Mottel of Kashlin, a businessman who had extensive dealings in Warsaw and spoke Polish fluently. One day, Reb Yitzhak of Vorki called for him with a request.
 
The Polish government had issued a decree to burn all extant copies of the Shulkhan Arukh, Hoshen  Mishpat- The Code of Jewish Law that deals with civil and criminal matters. The goal was to force Jews to take their litigation to the Polish courts rather than the rabbinical courts. No books had been burned yet, and Reb Yitzhak wanted Mottel to approach a certain powerful Polish minister and convince him to retract the decree.
 
“But that minister has a raging temper!” Mottel protested. “He threatens to shoot anyone who comes with requests like that!”
 
The tzaddik replied, “When Hashem sent Moses to save his people, he didn’t tell him to go to Pharaoh. He said:
 
'Bo el Paro-
     “Come to Pharaoh…'
 
"Moses was afraid, so Hashem reassured him that the Divine Presence would be going with him."
 
So Mottel set out to confront the minister, calm and unafraid. When he arrived, he spoke eloquently and convincingly. The powerful man was awestruck by the presence of the brave yet calm and joyful hasid who stood before him, and granted his request.
 
O Hashem, on this Shabbos Bo, the Sabbath to Come, may Your wisdom and transcendent bliss come into our lives through this gift of awareness with which you imbue us. May this awareness come to touch every manifestation of "Pharaoh" that You've given each of us to elevate and transform. May we not require any more of the plagues of violence and narrowness on our planet in order to evolve- Transformation now! Moshiakh Akhshav!
5 Comments
mom
1/18/2016 10:22:49 am

I really like this Brian. Is it just me or do others have to search for your weekly teachings because gmail puts them into "promotions"? I keep having this problem and can't seem to fix it!

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brian
1/18/2016 11:01:36 am

Hmmm I am going to look into this and I'll let you know what I find- thanks!!

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Luciana Cousin link
4/13/2016 01:14:16 am

This is a great piece. Although many write about "letting go" I think that no one has ever clearly defined how to let go or more importantly what to let go of. "Letting go" suggests "giving up", "moving away from". It is disempowering and has a tiny bit of the "turn the other cheek" mentality. For some reason, reading the sentence you wrote "The Divine Presence is always with you- It is your own presence, beneath your mind, beneath your personality:" resonated with me. Perhaps "letting go" is more to do with acceptance. Have a wonderful day, Luciana xx

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Brian Yosef
4/13/2016 01:21:20 am

Thank you for writing Luciana!
love,
brian yosef

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Nan Rubin
2/4/2017 09:56:57 am

Again, Brian, you offer a seamless relationship between the spiritual and psychological. That you imbue your teachings with Jewish texts, stories, and chanting brings Sh'lamut to my being. Thank you! Nan,

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